Invitational View
Our Founding Principles
The founding principles and understanding of our modalities and systems are that we are all energetic beings, holographic in nature, partaking of one option of creation in this experiential linear reality of “time and space”. By nature we are all, all knowing, all seeing “simultaneously” infinite, eternal and multidimensional. Faceted with levels of consciousness far beyond the human minds understanding. We contain everything that we seek to create. We are fields of energy, intelligence, and information, converting back and forth in minute units that mutate from light energy to matter and back to light. A crucible pathway of transmutation. In the "space" between light and matter the bodymind integrates, and reorganizes at this quantum level to a higher state of integral congruency.
"No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it". Albert Einstein
The Egoic Conditioned Mind
Egoic Body Our Egoic Body aka “the conditioned mind” is the “mindbody”, an energetic template that holds our unconscious negative beliefs that are activated by its thinking, and then emotionally react to our outside situations keeping its story dramatically alive. Our Egoic Body is developed at a very young age, spoon fed definitions, from our care givers {lots of *generational hand me downs/*ups”, incarnational and galactic carried over’s, karmic mis aimed imprints, the egoic collectives minds definitions}, society’s definitions, geographical definitions, religious definitions.., and most prudent are definitions that are from memorable impact full experiences, past, present, and future events that caused pain, hurt, stress.., All of this input of information becomes very real, and embedded in the conditioned mind. It literally takes it own form on as an entity, referred to in this program as “Negative Aspects in the Egoic Body.” It seeks to stay alive. It seeks to keep itself separate from God, because it thinks it is God. It literally feeds on the memories of the pain it originated from, on many levels of existence of its origin. It seeks to feed on pain to survive. Its radar is up all the time looking for it’s like frequency to feed it. It makes a person feel pain and it causes this person to inflict pain on others. What makes this so challenging is that Egoic Bodies does not want to be exposed, nor confronted. Its best friend is egoic pride, self-justification, control, rationalization, rejection, paranoia, projection, the need to be right..., the very negative aspects that interrupt relationship with God, self, and others. Ctrl-Alt-Delete! Time for the lower ego to have a new job description. Navigators these terminals of the Egoics – self justifications, limitations and projections are now closed!
* God as you define “God to be” Source, Infinite Creator, All That Is…,
*As the ancestors of the generations to come, we are creating a lineage of established patterns which are the result of our everyday choices and actions. These created patterns noted as Ancestral Imprints, are passed down/”up” to the energy fields of the future generations, affecting their thoughts, emotions, behaviors and choices. Likewise, our ancestors passed down to our energy fields, patterns which may continue to affect our thoughts, emotions, behaviors and choices.
Invitational View on Readings/Re-Alignments
At every given moment we are perceiving, believing a reality into existence. This is the mechanism of creation. Readings are not about predicting the future. The future is a probable event. One can read the energy in the moment, however it is probable.
Probable because it is our vibration {via our beliefs}, the very mechanism that is creating and shifting reality into existences. We create our reality consciously or unconsciously. Where ever we are, our mind, our thoughts, behaviors/beliefs, perceptions sets up the template to receive that particular probable version of reality. Much like an antenna.
Most people look for a reading/information, "outside of them selfs". Mainly because they can't get outside of their mental thinking. Our conditioned mind wants to know the future, usually because it has us in a state of panic or fear. A state of confusion and being out of the present moment.
Or we simply are not in vibrational alignment to maintain a posture of manifesting and allowing our true desires. Because our beliefs of the conditioned mind do not have us vibrating in a manner that is synchronous to what we are thinking. And we can't see it, it is invisible to us, and the conditioned mind loves told you so's! We can't see it, only because our beliefs do not yet have us vibrating in a manner that is synchronous with those versions of reality.
We contain it ALL - all possible "versions". Everything does already exist, and all these here/now versions are in various states of visible/invisible for us, depending on our beliefs relative to any particular version. We "see" and "objectively experience" the versions that are synchronized with how we are vibrating, and it's our beliefs at any given moment that determine how we are vibrating.
Perhaps we have a miss wire or a running operating system of the conditioned mind that has one in that state of fear and worry. This can show up as feeling and acting like we are on auto pilot, a feeling of being scattered and or unplugged. Like we are vacuuming the house and the vacumn cleaner is not plunged in, and as an added note probably stubbed our toe on the coffee table.
What perhaps we are really seeking is some self actualizing empowerment, mirrored guidance to plug back in, tune up and maintain a purposeful posture allowing reality to manifest.
Receive , a vibrational tune up, a re-alignment to your Authentic Self your Higher Mind. Where the true navigator of your life has a direct view of everything that you need. I lovingly invite you to a new possibility, a new higher version of self.
The Prismatic Astral Wheel
Free will exists on all levels. Before incarnation, formlessness, the non-physical state, the free will of the Higher Self, (by vibration frequency and exploration necessity), determines the idea you wish to express and experience as a physical being. The Prismatic Astral Wheel , helps one to understand , how you have fulfill these choices by bringing to conscious awareness the understanding of the very themes and blueprint of your life.
Profiling your Prismatic Astral Wheel gives you insights a holographic understanding into the blueprint, the frames of your life and the very roles that you play and that others play for you. Those roles eventually become the stories/thought forms that are embedded in your mindbody conditioning. As used in this program as your *egoic bodies template. The very conditioning that impact and navigate your life.., your relationships, your finances, your career, and in fact, your entire life in a positive or negative way.
In this process we bring awareness to the set ups of the shadows and how it is conditioned you to your perceptions and their very actions in your life.
By stepping into the conscious role, the light and out of the shadow of your perceptions and behavioral patterns, you will gain the wisdom to now consciously response, via their positive attributes, rather than their negative reactions. You will enhance your relationships, by way of standing in their power viewing in gratitude the people and situations in your life that have mirrored and caused you to the wisdom of the patterns and "set ups" into consciousness.
All relationships are a divine opportunity for love, growth and awareness. Forgiveness is organic when you live life consciously, because you see the agreements of how others have held such a loving dynamic space for your awareness, reorganization, healing and growth.
Step 1: Recognizing Co-Dependent Patterns
There are lots of ways to avoid recognizing the existence of co-dependency. It's like being asleep. You dream that things are one way. Even if they aren't that way, you keep dreaming. Because almost everything you have been exposed to has co-dependent overtones, you may not be aware that there is something better.
For some of you, denial may have been a learned survival or safety mechanism. If you really saw or talked about what was happening in your family where you grew up, you might not have survived childhood. You may have been taught not to notice what was happening to you and to other people in your family in order to maintain a "one big happy family" fantasy for the outside world. Of all the things you were taught to ignore, it is the lack of recognition of your own feelings that usually has the most devastating effects on you and your relationships. co-dependency, like most addictions, is a feeling disorder.
Step 2: Understanding the Causes of the Problem
There is much confusion in the literature about the actual causes of co-dependency. Some claim it is the result of a genetic weakness, while others claim it comes from contact with alcoholics or an alcoholic family. The main thesis of this ministry is that it is caused by a developmental flaw and it is learned dysfunctional behavior. It is also seen as a systemic problem related to growing up in a dysfunctional family and a dysfunctional society.
Step 3: Unraveling Co-Dependent Relationships
Once you understand that the causes of co-dependency originate in relationship dynamics that never got completed, you can begin to see how those dynamics recycle in your present relationships. The completion of your psychological birth process is the dynamic that is pressing for recognition all the time in co-dependent relationships. When you learn to recognize what you left undone, then, with additional support and new skills, you can consciously finish the process.
Step 4: Taking Back Your Projections
When you attempt to become separate by making others wrong or bad, you usually develop a lifestyle based on projection. You may twist reality to suit your need to be right and justify your behavior by making others wrong. Taking back these projections often requires theloving confrontation and support of group or family members, friends and partners, a spouse or a therapist. Projections are the building blocks in the wall of denial. They tend to fall away slowly until enough of the wall of denial is removed and the truth of who you and others are is finally revealed.
Step 5: Eliminating Self-Hate
If you didn't become separate from your mother or your family and you tried to separate by making them wrong or bad, you will likely end up making yourself wrong or bad as well. You may try to deny or cover up these negative feelings, but they usually run your life. It is necessary to uncover, claim and transform these negative images. They are based on misperceptions and illusions and are also the result of poor object constancy. By understanding that these projections are the source of your low self-esteem, you can correct them.
Step 6: Eliminating Power Plays and Manipulation
Lacking the full natural power that comes from the completion of the psychological birth, you are likely to utilize power plays and manipulations to get what you want. The drama triangle (persecutor, rescuer and victim roles) is a common way to manipulate others while remaining very passive. As you find more effective ways to get people to cooperate with you, the need to try to control others will drop away.
Step 7: Asking For What You Want
One of the most simple, straightforward ways to get what you want is to ask for it directly in such a way that people are delighted to give it to you (if they have it to give). What usually happens is that people don't ask directly ("I might be needing the car later.") and then get disappointed when people don't rescue them, or they ask with so much anger or resentment ("Damn it, I've got to have the car tonight! Can I have it?") that the other person resists and says no.
Step 8: Learning to Feel Again
Children raised in dysfunctional families learn very early to deny their feelings and thoughts about what is happening in their home. One of the most frequently denied feelings is anger, even though people in co-dependent relationships are angry much of the time. Anger has to be "'justified" in some way before it can be expressed. Someone has to be blamed or made the scapegoat for all the unhappiness in the family. Children often are used in this way. As an adult, you will have to reclaim the feelings that you denied in order to help you survive childhood. People cannot recover from codependency without reclaiming their feelings.
Step 9: Healing Your Inner Child
If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, you were taught to focus on what others were doing and not on what you were doing. You were forced to adopt a false self in order to please others. You also were forced to hide your true self, including your innocent, vulnerable inner child. Your inner child suffered from wounds administered by supposedly caring, loving people who may have laughed at you, teased you, showed no respect for you, not listened to you, physically beat you or ignored your most important needs. To keep from getting hurt, it may have been necessary for you to hide that part of you from the outside world. In the process, you also may have hidden that part from yourself. Recovery involves reconnecting with and healing your inner child.
Step 10: Defining Your Own Boundaries
Everyone has a psychological territory that is their own. It consists of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors and your body. Most people who came from a dysfunctional family had their territory violated so often as a child that as an adult they no longer are even aware of when it is happening. Most co-dependents have a very low awareness of their personal boundaries and almost no skills in defining and protecting their boundaries. It is essential for co-dependents to learn to define and protect their boundaries in effective ways if they wish to break their co-dependent patterns.
Step 11: Learning To Be Intimate
co-dependents both fear and desire intimacy. The fear is often that they will be controlled, hurt, engulfed or trampled by someone with whom they are intimate. Breaking co-dependency seems to require a rebonding process with another human being. People often need new parenting from someone like a therapist or another adult who can supply the missing information, touch or the nurturing support necessary to build object constancy and self-esteem.
Step 12: Learning New Forms of Relationship
Most people who have lived with co-dependent patterns for some time have little or no awareness of the richness of life that they are missing. Often it is some vague awareness that "There has to be more to life than this" that allows co-dependent people to start taking the risks to change. What replaces co-dependency is interdependency, where two or more people have learned to be autonomous enough to be able to co-create life together and to be willing to support the highest good in each other.
